First Birthday and First Surgery

Last week we celebrated Aubrey's first birthday! In some ways, I can't believe she is already a year old, but in other ways it seems much longer than a year since she has been with us. The year has been full of changes and challenges. All three of us have grown so much. I've tried to soak up each milestone and moment during this past year, and her birthday was no different. I really didn't know what you do at a first birthday party. It's not like the kids could play games or enjoy some sort of entertainment. So we just shared some snacks with friends, let the kids play, opened presents and ate some cupcakes. It was a lot of fun, and we were so happy to have so many of our family and friends share the special day with us. It was fun to watch all the kids (Aubrey, Will, Cooper, Miller, and Madeline) play. Little Asher and Chloe were too small to play but adorable to look at! Aubrey wasn't a big fan of her cake. She just smashed it up and wanted out of her highchair. She got some great presents: a homemade blanket from Aunt Suzi, a wagon which she LOVES, baby doll, cell phone, purse, books, puzzle, and several ADORABLE outfits. It will be a celebration we will never forget.

Cupcakes

12 months of photos

Andrew and Sarah with the snacks

Birthday Girl

Having some fun

Aubrey loves her Nina

Awww man it's not at iphone!

Aubrey and cousin Will

Not a fan of cake

OK now I'm just mad

Too much party

The Wednesday after her birthday, Aubrey had to get tubes put in her ears. She has been battling ear infections since October. She has been such a trooper through it all. She has continued to sleep well, eat well, and not run a fever. This winter has been awful! We've spent so much time at the doctor, on antibiotics, and getting shots. I was so against the tubes, and we did everything trying to prevent having to get them. Of corse, after the fifth ear infection we didn't have much choice. I have blamed myself thinking that she wouldn't be going through this if she weren't in daycare and I stayed home with her. I don't know if it would really make a difference. I know that kids who stay home have the same problems. Anyway, she did great. She couldn't eat after midnight, so I was really nervous about that, but she did fine, and had no trouble when the nurses took her away. The procedure was so fast! She had a fit coming out of anesthesia. She would not quit screaming until we left the hospital. After she ate at home and took a nap, she was fine. She has been happier and babbling more than ever now! I can tell such a difference in her. Poor thing had just gotten used to the pain and didn't realize how good she could feel! We are so happy we did it, and hope that it helps these infections. We'll do whatever it takes to make her feel good and happy.

Aubrey before surgery in her hospital gown